It’s been said that we all speak different love languages. Just like how some people prefer quality time over gifts, others may feel more loved when they receive acts of service. In 1992, Dr. Gary Chapman wrote a book called “The 5 Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate,” which explained that there are five ways to speak and express love. These languages are:
1. Words of Affirmation
2. Quality Time
3. Receiving Gifts
4. Acts of Service
5. Physical Touch
Do you know what your love language is? Take the quiz here to find out!
People usually have a primary and secondary love language. This means that one love language speaks to them more than the others. For example, my primary love language is quality time. This means that I feel more loved when I spend time with someone, rather than receiving a gift or a kind word.
If you’re not sure what your love language is, don’t worry! There are ways to figure it out. Pay attention to the things you complain about to your partner or friends. If you find yourself constantly saying things like, “You never spend time with me!” then quality time is probably your love language.
Once you know your love language, you can start speaking it! If your partner’s love language is quality time, try planning a date night or a weekend getaway. If their love language is words of affirmation, tell them how much you appreciate them. A simple “Thank you for doing the dishes” can go a long way.
No matter what your love language is, the most important thing is to express it to your loved ones. We all have different ways of expressing and receiving love, so it’s important to find out what works for you.
Do you know your love language? What are some ways you like to express or receive love? Let us know in the comments below!
