We all know that feeling when our love lives start to feel a little… dull. The good news is, there are lots of easy ways to add some spice! Here are 10 tips to get you started:
1. Set the mood with candles, soft lighting, and some romantic tunes.
2. Get playful! Add some excitement with a game of truth or dare, make a homemade Coup de Grace game, or even race each other to see who can give the best massage.
3. Get out of the house and explore! Plan a weekend getaway, go on a hike or picnic, or visit a new city or town together.
4. Make time for each other. Dedicate at least 30 minutes each day to focus on your partner without any distractions. This can be used for pillow talk, cuddling, or even playful banter.
5. Be present. When you’re with your partner, be present. Turn off your phone and give them your undivided attention.
6. Get physical. Whether it’s sex, making out, or just playful wrestling, physical affection is a great way to spice up your love life.
7. Be spontaneous. Do something unexpected for your partner, like buy them flowers, cook their favorite meal, or write them a love letter.
8. Talk about your fantasies. Share what turns you on, and be open to trying new things.
9. Be a good listener. Pay attention to what your partner says and try to meet their needs.
10. Have fun! At the end of the day, love should be fun. If you’re not enjoying yourself, something is probably wrong. Talk to your partner about it and see what you can do to fix it.
